LET'S CHAT WITH THE 'DIRTIEST GIRL IN PORN'

I’m not quite sure what I expected to think or even see when I met one of the world’s most successful porn stars in the world, Bella Donna this week.  What sort of girl should I expect, that last year won ‘Dirtiest Girl In Porn’ at the FAME Awards in LA, which is sort of the like the Logies of the adult entertainment world.  Wow, that’s quite an achievement, and one that I can’t quite get my head around.

So before she arrived for our interview I found myself pacing around the office unable to relax with the weirdest mix of feelings swilling around my head.  My first possible mistake was doing a last minute check of her website to strangely, ‘see what she was all about’.

That didn’t exactly help as now I was well aware of why she had one that award in LA last year, and to be honest, I was now even scared of her.  And then there was my moral dilemma of not what she did for a living, but because I couldn’t help but to feel judgemental of her and I felt guilty about that.  Does that make me a bad person, I wondered?  Or just someone about to meet ‘the dirtiest girl in porn?”

So in bounds this smiley, petite and pretty girl, dressed in a long sleeve cream jumper, and a pair of simple jeans.  Nothing screaming porn star so far?  In fact, she looked like the type of girl you’d see in most offices.  Not the type that can’t be advertised in the general section of your local video shop!

She grew up in a strict Mormon family, and not perhaps the poor, dysfunctional and maybe abusive upbringing that the stereotype of someone that works in the sex industry might conjure up.

So did her upbringing in any way contribute to her path towards sex stardom?    “Yeah I do.  Because I lived such a suppressed life I think that I just went the other way, in a big way!” she giggles.  “I first had sex at 14 which I guess was late when you consider I’d been having sexual feelings since I was about 5!”

When Belladonna isn’t shooting one of the 250 adult movies that she’s starred in, she’s also a mum of a 3 year old little girl, whom she lives in LA with, along with her husband, who is now her exclusive camera man.

How does a porn star mum go about letting her child know that mummy’s a bit different from the other kindy mums?    When for many of us, our mum’s way of informing us about sex is by leaving a copy of ‘Where did I come from?” on the end of our beds.  At least that’s how it happened for me!  “I’ll tell her when she’s about 5 or 6!  I’ll just tell her the truth.  There’s nothing to be ashamed of and I want her to know that!  I don’t want her to ever feel llike she has to lie to people just to make them like her!”

I had to ask her if she felt that that would make her little girl’s time at school pretty difficult to say the least considering even having a funny name is enough to get crucified by some kids,  let alone having the kids know your mum’s the star of ‘Manhandling 3’.  “I think it’s best to be honest, no matter what!”

So what happens if she doesn’t fancy her co-star?  “I just learnt early on to find one thing about that person that I liked!  A smile, a calf, or even a dimple!  Just something I can focus on!”  Sounds like a good harmless plan if we weren’t talking about making a hard core porn film with them.

I have to be honest, I really expected to come away from this interview feeling like I’d met someone that had some serious issues on board, and probably feeling really, really sorry for her.  But I didn’t!

It’s hard to thrust pity on someone that seems incredibly comfortable in their own skin, and according to her,  just like the rest of us hope to do, has found something that not only is she good at, but she’s hugely successful.

And if DVD s sales, and her ‘dirtiest girl in the porn’ trophy hanging in the pool room are anything to go by, Belladonna has pretty much nailed it.  So to speak!

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    • She came to Adelaide for sexpo! Of course, the boys (Cosi and Rabbit) were fairly keen to chat to her. ha ha. although….I was fascinated too.

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